Looking to take a walk on the wild side, or at the very least, have a little naughty fun? Get ready for a night of role reversal – guys come as girls, girls come as guys, and everyone enjoys some crazy cross dressing good time. Not sure where to start? Just follow us, and you’ll see inspiration is everywhere!
INVITATION TYPE
DECORATIONS
- Make your space fun, colorful, and inviting. For some reason, we just feel a lot of glitter, sequins, and a disco ball is in order.
- Hang up pictures or posters of famous drag queens or movie posters which depict cross-dressers.
FOOD AND DRINK MENU
Create a menu of phallus shaped or sexually suggestive foods:
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Appetizer: Vegetable Platter with your favorite dips or dressings
Some veggies to include- cucumbers, carrots, asparagus, squash.
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Entrée: Bangers and Mash
This popular English pub food combines sausages with mashed potatoes.
- Dessert: Spotted Dick
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This popular WWII cocktail takes a crack at Adolf Hitler, but we just love the name.
ENTERTAINMENT
Some gender bending movies to consider renting:
- Tootsie
- Just One of the Guys
- To Wong Foo Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar
- Victor Victoria
- She’s the Man
Some songs to include in your gender bender playlist:
- “If I Were a Boy” by Beyonce
- “The Crying Game” by Boy George
- “Dude Looks Like a Lady” by Aerosmith
- “Man! I Feel Like a Woman!” by Shania Twain
- “Sweet Transvestite” from Rocky Horror Picture Show
GAMES
Here are some fun board games which all deal with gender related issues. All are available on Amazon.
ATTIRE
- This party is all about portraying yourself as the opposite sex, so you need to dress the part. Put a twist on costumes by encourage couples to come dressed as famous couples.
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Gentlemen:
- Go for long haired wigs and pretty jewelry and part of your getup.
- Makeup is an important tool for looking feminine. Have your wife, girlfriend, or a female friend you trust help you put your face on. Don’t forget the little details like painting your nails.
- Dresses or skirts are essential.
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Ladies:
- Opt for shorter hair styles, whether you choose to wear a wig or pull your hair back. Play around with facial hair, too. You can draw a beard or moustache with makeup, or get a facial hair kit from a costume shop.
- There are plenty of clothing options out there, from a suit with dress shirt and tie to sports jerseys and other athletic gear. Raid your closet before you go out and buy something, you might be surprised with what you already own.
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A sock in your crotch would be a nice touch.
LAST MINUTE TIPS
Stick to proper hygiene and arrive clean and well groomed. While it may be cute to dress frumpy and look sweaty like you just came from the gym, we want you to dress the part, not smell it.
And as always, remember to bring your camera!
